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DAYKA…AL ROKER…AND MY FIRST LIVE, NATIONAL TV INTERVIEW–EVER!

Deep inside, I’ve always known that TV was in the cards for me.
As I became more confident in my abilities & established some bigger dreams, it started to become clear that it’s the next logical, progressive step along my path. 
I’ve been offered two opportunities in years past and received emails from a few producers requesting casting videos, but I either didn’t make the final cut or it was for something I’ve always shied away from–a competition-style show. 
Because I’ve been able to get a good amount of behind-the-scenes production work under my belt, both from my days as a Design Assistant on the show Movie & A Makeover (Turner Broadcasting) and from the last few years through my work with Flynnside Out, I’m clear that my ideal situation is being in front of the camera as an expert. There are so many uncontrollable things that happen behind the scenes that the viewer never sees–budgets disappear, parameters change, etc, but all you end up seeing in the end is an ugly room–no thanks. There’s nothing wrong with the competition premise in general, but also I understand my personality enough to know that it probably won’t play well in those circumstances–I’ve been told I have a case of RBF (Resting Bitch Face), I’m often a little heavy on the sarcasm & I absolutely enjoy a raunchy comment (or two!) every now & then. In TV land, this is either a recipe for disaster or the makings of great drama…depending on who’s doing the interpreting! 
So it shouldn’t come as a surprise to you when I say that getting booked as a guest expert on the Wake Up With Al morning show (The Weather Channel) was right up my alleythe exact thing kind of thing I’ve been wanting to do. It may be a surprise to you, however, to learn that 3 minutes after the opportunity was extended to to me…I got scared, y’all!! I immediately said yes but my mind was all, “What have you done???”, once I started thinking about the parameters of live tv & how there’s no editing. Then all of the dreaded “what-ifs” started popping up:
What if I trip over my feet, grab the table for balance & pull it down with me??
What if I get all tongue tied as I’m speaking, can’t get my words out & just go into blank zone???
   Or better yet, What if I drop my beloved F-bomb in an off-the-cuff moment??
YIKES. All very scary scenarios.
But as much as fearful dayka was saying no (little d), I had this other voice in my heart that was all, “Go girl…you know you got this!” (said in my Mom’s tone), so of course there was no turning back. 
Not only because I believe we have to run towards the things we’re afraid of, but also because it was true–I am/was equipped for this!!
And in the end, this first-timer couldn’t have asked for a better outcome.
The thing about live TV is this–the only way for you to get better at doing live TV is to actually DO live TV….I don’t think there’s any other way to simulate this kind of experience. After my fantastic producer Michael discussed the parameters of the segment with me, I pitched 10 ideas and he narrowed it down to the ones he liked the best/thought were the best fit for their content (weather-related upcycle & recycle projects). I actually prepared 6 projects, we narrowed it down to 5 when I arrived Wednesday morning, and then during my segment, Al actually skipped over the recycled umbrella bag (which was fantastic, btw), so I only ended up presenting 4 of my projects which worked perfect for my 2.5 minutes. I had a bit of anxiety Monday & Tuesday morning but by the time I settled in Tuesday evening and carved out some quiet space, I was feeling confident and great…which lasted right up until we were about 15 seconds out and my stomach went all haywire. I was telling myself, “Don’t you even do this shit, Dayka. Not now.” and that was all I needed to pull it together–ha! All in all, my 2.5 minutes went off without a hitch (of course there are a few things I could nitpick, but I won’t) and I’m pretty proud of this segment! Sam Champion–formerly of GMA and now host of his own show, AMHQ–and I were in makeup together so we had a chance to chat for a bit  which was very cool–such a great guy to be around (with a body to match!).
Totally just as warm & pleasant as you would expect. And Stephanie Abrams, his cohost, is hilarious–I can see why they make a great team. 
 I was able to stay in the studio for a bit around my segment and watching Al work is incredible…and so mind blowing to find myself in the same studio with an icon that I grew up with every morning, not only watching him do his thing in person but being interviewed by him as well!! 
I seriously wanted to pinch myself.
I can only imagine the grind of getting up at 3am daily (and having to go to bed very early, I imagine), but they both made it look effortless.
 I’m believing my skills will be much the same one day, too (and soon)!

So if you have a moment, take 2 minutes to watch my first, live national tv guest spot ever with none other than Al Roker himself. I wrote a blog post a few days ago where I mentioned just saying yes and thinking of your fear like a lion, only to get right up to it and see that it’s just a tabby cat. 
This was one of those times, for sure, and it’s funny to see how I wrote that just days before, not knowing that this opportunity was just around the corner.
Essentially I was talking to myself.
I was nervous, I won’t lie, but when the cameras went live, your girl was ready to go.
 And now that I’ve got this one under my belt, I’m really excited about doing this again–I loved every minute.

2 Comments on DAYKA…AL ROKER…AND MY FIRST LIVE, NATIONAL TV INTERVIEW–EVER!

  1. Jessica
    January 23, 2015 at 1:53 pm (3 years ago)

    Great job Dayka! What an opportunity and you “kilt” it! You looked very comfortable in front of the camera. Can’t wait to see what’s next for you.

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  2. Sheree Thomas
    January 23, 2015 at 6:52 pm (3 years ago)

    I am soo excited for you. It went well and you looked great. You are such an inspiration and I truly enjoy watching your journey!!

    Reply

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